Keywords
attachment styles
homosexuals
gays
lesbians
interpersonal relationships
partnerships
social environment
discrimination
stigma
minority stress
coming out
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Abstract
The article provides a theoretical analysis and justification of the psychological characteristics of homosexual attachment. The main differences in defining attachment between gays and lesbians are investigated, as well as the influence of social and psychological factors on its formation. An analysis of theoretical approaches to the study of attachment is carried out, which consider emotional ties in the context of childhood experience, interpersonal interaction and social support. The main factors influencing attachment in LGB representatives are identified, in particular the level of acceptance by parents, social recognition of sexual orientation and attachment style in partner relationships. Three aspects of attachment are identified that affect psychological well-being: the emotional availability of partners, the level of social support and the impact of discrimination. It is determined that modern personality research emphasizes the key role of attachment in the formation of emotional regulation, social ties and satisfaction with relationships. The aspect of coming out has been highlighted as an important factor influencing self-esteem, nervous stability and the level of trust in relationships. It has been established that attachment in LGB people may be characterized by anxiety, uniqueness of intimacy or difficulties in self-disclosure due to the influence of social norms. The main psychological features of attachment have been identified: an increased level of anxious and avoidant attachment, dependence on social acceptance, the impact of discrimination on self-esteem and the need for additional support to form stable emotional bonds.
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